Banyo

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Monday, September 14, 2015

Ropes

William Carey has been called the “Father of Modern Missions.” In the late 1700's, he uprooted his family from England and went to India where after 40 years of service, he saw 212,000 copies of the Bible he had translated reach 300 million people in over 40 different Indian dialects.

There is another man integral to this great missionary story- Andrew Fuller. He held the ropes.

Before he left for India, Carey told a group of missions focused believers , “I will go down into the well, if you hold the ropes.” Fuller was among those believers. He raised funds, recruited more missionaries, and sent personal letters to Carey in India. He held the ropes.

When talking about missions John Piper put it this way, “You can be a goer, a sender, or disobedient. The Bible does not assume that everyone goes. But it does assume that ones who do not go care about goers and support goers and pray for goers and hold the rope of the goers." If you believe in Jesus, when it comes to “making disciples of all men,” you have three choices: go, send, or disobey. It is as simple and as difficult as that.


Josh and I have picked up one end of the rope. We have said we will go into “the well”. We will go down into the dark unknown where it is uncomfortable and risky, but we need you to hold the other end.

Literally we need you.

We need you to pick up the other end of the rope! We need your financial support. Missionaries need a lot more than a plane ticket. But still, they really do need that plane ticket, and health insurance, and other everyday tangible items that make life in a foreign country possible. As unglamorous as they are, these items add up. But we also need your money to purchase sheep for a sick woman so that she can have a source of income to buy her life sustaining medicines. Your money allows us to do missions and it fuels our mission.

We need you to keep holding on to that rope! Once we take the leap into the well, we need you to keep hold of us or we will fall. We need your prayers. This is not an easy alternative to giving money. This is not an “oh yeah I will pray for them someday, maybe, if I remember” kind of prayer. What we need is faithful, fervent prayers. We need you to pray for our safety. I mean really pray. Last term, we narrowly escaped a rebel attack! Daily we face malaria and other tropical diseases. We need you to pray for the people we come in contact with- for their health, their fight against poverty, and their spiritual needs. We need you to pray for our family that when we come back out of the well that we will be intact and none worse the wear. We have so many prayer needs. Ask us what they are- please.

We need you to cheer us on while we are hanging on to the rope. We need your encouragement. Living and ministering in a foreign land is not for the faint of heart. I have never been so tired as when we were in Africa. I felt like my body was always fighting off some bug, my mind hurt from constantly trying to translate the flow of foreign words around me, almost every moment was spent wrestling with how to meet the overwhelming needs around me, safety is always on our minds, and to boot there is the homesickness. We also want you to cheer with us when we are excited and experiencing the many joys God blesses us with with on the mission field. Watching a plump baby leave the hospital that was once hours away from dying of malnutrition is amazing. Celebrate God's awesomeness with us! An encouraging email- (or even better-snail mail) is joyous! Once Charlie went with me to the post office and she just happened to get a card with stickers in it. Every time we passed the post office after that, she talked about the time she got those stickers! Little gestures go a long way and are appreciated way more than we can express.

There is something taboo about asking for help, a sign of weakness I guess, and it is hard for me to “lay it all out in the open” in this blog post, but listen, I am not too proud to beg. I know from our experience last time in Africa that we really need you. Will you hold the ropes for us?

Wednesday, September 2, 2015

An Africa and Christmas state of mind

We have sent out our support letters- halleluiah! In one sense it is a huge relief. Hours and hours of stuffing envelopes, writing addresses and worrying about the long term effects of ingesting copious amounts of envelope glue is over! But then comes the hard part- trusting that God will provide through the generosity of others (but praise the Lord we have already had some donations in first few days of fundraising! Look at that bar to the right climbing).
We are now in the limbo/waiting stage. When people ask when we are returning to Cameroon, we have to caveat our answer and say, "January. IF we raise all of our support." This is a challenging time for me because it is out of my hands and let me tell you, I like to be in control!
So when I get all crazy eyes panicked about things I cannot control, I make lists- lists of things I can control, I mean do. I have recently started 2 lists: 1. The get my bum in gear and get these things done for Africa list and 2. My Christmas shopping list.
Let's start with #2 because I know for many of you just reading the words "Christmas shopping" has gotten YOU all crazy eyed panicky. Relax. It is barely September- you have plenty of time. But me, I feel like I have a ton of stuff to do between now and Christmas so I want to get a head start and get all of the "have to do" stuff out of the way so I can really enjoy the next few months. Also, the Wal-Mart near me just redid their toy department which meant they had a plethora of toys on sale. Add deeply discounted finds to the fact that Charlie started preschool a few weeks ago which meant I can actually look around a store without the constant mention of the injustice of childhood boredom and let's just say that all of the little kiddos in my life are covered for Christmas. Plus I got cheap birthday and Christmas gifts for Charlie for the next few years while we are in Africa. Score! Now if only all of the hard-to-buy-for men in my life would appreciate a "Doc McStuffins fix the boo boos" board game, I would really be in business!
List #1 is not as easy to complete and sadly involves less board games. My "Africa to do list" involves figuring out passport renewals, getting vaccine boosters, brushing up on my Fufulde language skills, taking tropical medicine courses online, buying water filters and mosquito nets, and so on. Although the list looks long (and keeps getting longer) and is a bit overwhelming, I love being in an African state of mind!  I am really getting excited to return to our other home!

Wednesday, August 19, 2015

"All About Me"- Charlie's Pre-K assignment

Charlie started Pre-K on Monday and let me tell you, preschool is no joke. It is not all finger painting and snack time! My cute little baby came home with homework! She had to decorate her fish (her class is the "Fishes") with pictures that tell "All About Me." So we sat down together and went through pictures on the computer that she thought described her and that she wanted to print out. We decorated her pink fish with glitter and Disney princess stickers- the Modge Podge came out ya'll! When Josh came home, she was so proud. After dinner we practiced what she was going to say about each picture and this is what she said:

 
My name is Charlotte, but you can call me Charlie.
 

 
This is my mom Lori and my dad Josh.
 
 
 
 
I like Chick-fil-A. (seriously my child felt the need to share her love of the Chick!)
 
 
I like to swim.

 
I like to do crafts.

 
I like to ride in helicopters. (Like we do this all of the time!)

 
I like to go to the beach with my cousin Raynah.

 
I like Mud Mania. (Of all the things in her life, she thought this one event important enough to share!)

 
I like to dance.
 
 
 
I lived in Africa, but I am American. (The second part was a result from a previous conversation that we had where yes you lived in Africa and yes you are American, but no you are not "African American.")
 
And the best part....
 
I lived in Africa. I am American. We are going back to Africa and we are collecting money!
 
 
Seriously! She said that. Josh and I were dying laughing. We always said that she would be the greatest missionary out of all of us- apparently in the fund raising aspect too!
 
So she did her presentation today. Based on the lack of coinage upon her return home, I am guessing that she omitted the plea for money. Either that or those stingy 4-year-olds did not want to part with their milk money!
 
Nothing gets past kids. I don't think we ever really said to her that we needed to raise money, but no doubt she has seen us getting our support letters together. And they are finally done!
 
See this pic? That is approximately 150 letters on their way to the mailbox!
 
 
 
 

Thursday, June 4, 2015

Girl Scout Cookies and missionary support raising!

Hey see that thermometer to the right of the screen? Yep, it is that time again! Time to do something Josh and I hate in order to do something we love. The thing we love: ministering to the people of Banyo, Cameroon- tending to their physical wounds, fixing their electricity so their children have light to do their homework at night, telling them about the love and hope of Jesus! And that is what we hope to do again starting January 2016!

The thing we hate: asking for money! I don't think there are very many people that actually enjoy begging from their friends, family, family friends, or random strangers for handouts. I here ya fund raising haters- I am a card carrying member of your committee (which is awesome because there are no dues since no one wants to ask for them!). When I was little, I only sold Girl Scout cookies and wrapping paper to my parents because I did not want to ask anyone else. I never ever won the cool bike for most boxes sold- not even close.



Then I became a missionary and I learned that one does not “go on a mission,” they are “sent on a mission.” The reality is that people have to give so that you can go. In the very beginning of our missionary story, Josh and I were bound and determined to work really hard at our jobs in America, be super frugal, save every penny, and support ourselves overseas. We did not want to ask for money from others! Three things happened: 1-we learned the real cost of being a missionary (who knew visas and residency documentation were so expensive?!) 2- we discovered those aspirations had more to do with our pride than God's leading and 3- people wiser and more experienced than us advised that we were robbing others of the joy of “radical generosity.”
In 2 Corinthians 8, Paul talks about the churches of Macedonia who begged “with great earnestness” for the “blessing and fellowship of helping the Saints”- those traveling around telling of Jesus. The Macedonians were begging to give to Paul the way I now search for little girls in front of grocery stores to sell me a box of Thin Mints! They were eager. They had a taste of the good stuff and they wanted more!

Ok, stop begging, stop begging. No really stop. Yes, you can donate to us! Here is how:

We will be sending out our “support letters” soon. If you have ever received anything from us by mail, rest assured you will get one of these letters (unless you tell us otherwise). If you have never received Shinar mail or have moved and would like one (includes a great prayer reminder card) please give us your address and we will be sure that you get one!


*I just wanted to add that this post was really difficult for me. In fact it took me 3+ hours to work on it (yay for vacation Bible school occupying Charlie this morning). Money, giving, abundance, and need are all really BIG topics! I touched on everyone of these topics in the multiple drafts of this blog, but finally I rested here- a starting point for dialogue and musings on these topics. It is my hope to explore these more in following blogs.

Thursday, May 28, 2015

Out of hibernation!

A few months ago, Josh and I went to conference for missionaries returning to the States. During the conference, we were asked what “season” we felt we were in. I responded by saying that I felt like I was in winter- in hibernation actually-a time of withdrawing, resting, and preparing for our next season of ministry. (Apparently there was some hibernating from the Blog too since there has been nothing new on here since August- sorry!) This time at home in Arizona has been really important for us to reflect on our last term in the Central African Republic and Cameroon, recharge our batteries, refill our cups, and prepare for the next season of ministry- we will be heading back to Banyo, Cameroon in January!


Before we talk about what is next for us, here's a recap of what we've been doing since returning from Cameroon:

  • Lots of great time with family and friends! We have enjoyed living close to Josh's parents and vising my family in Georgia. Charlie has had great visits with cousins. And we have really loved catching up with our good friends!
  • Charlie started preschool and LOVES it! She asks everyday if it is a “school day.” She has also made many new friends.


  • As Charlie is getting older, we have been experiencing a lot of fun kid activities like going to birthday parties, taking trips to the zoo, learning to ride a bike, and being obsessed with Frozen! Knowing that some of these activities cannot be experienced in Cameroon, I especially enjoy them and try not to take simple things like playing at the playground for granted! We are trying to pack in all of the fun that is for sure!                                          


  • Josh started working for the company that he sold before we went to Africa- Adopt Technologies (formally Directrix). He does not like to be idle for long so he is happy to be back in his IT element.


  • I am also doing what I love- being a mom! It has been such a blessing to be able to stay home with Charlie and get to enjoy all of these fun childhood moments.

  • And of course we have been enjoying all of the restaurants, shopping, movie theaters and other conveniences of America. Oh Target, how I love thee! And let's not even talk about the food! Cheese, cheese, and more cheese for sure!

Stay tuned for more frequent updates! Don't forget you can check out our page on the Covenant website here: http://www.covchurchgiving.com/p-298-missionaries-joshua-and-lori-shinar.aspx You can even donate there is you wish!